Pet owners spend money on their pets. It's a given, it's our nature. We think that because children need toys for stimulation, our pets do too. So, we spend quite possibly millions on toys for pets that are quite capable of entertaining themselves with items all ready to be found in their environment. It's a matter of convincing the pet, a cat named Bashful in this case, to play with the ball, not the potted plant. Balls are not that expensive, they come in all varieties. Hard plastic frames with jingle bells. Hard plastic with nothing inside, rubber, sponge, whatever. I believe that I have at least 2 of every type imaginable. So, why does she play with pens, pencils, bottle caps or anything else you drop on the floor?
Then of course since cats like to chase mice, you help yourself to the numerous types of mice you find on the market. Little ones made of rabbit fur, larger ones from fleece. Stuffed with kapok, straw or catnip. There's even a mouse that vibrates and spins in a circle. So, why is she up on the bathroom vanity trying to play with the powder puff? No matter what toy you believe you just have to have, they always play with it for 5 minutes and go back to their own choices, which just might be the potted plant.
Hubby went shopping one Christmas time. I've no idea what he intended to buy, with men who can tell? What he came home with was a 2 story Kitty Condo. Apparently the advertisement said they must have one. Who was he to argue? So, Bashful got a Kitty Condo for Christmas. She was NOT impressed. She was a lot more interested in the crocheted Christmas ornament hanging from the lower branches. I learned relatively early not to hang breakable ornaments from the bottom branches. It was a compromise, if I let her play with the reachable ornaments she did not try to climb the tree for the more interesting stuff. It worked very well for both of us. She was stimulated, and I was not stimulated by the sound of a tipped over tree crashing to the floor.

She totally ignored the Kitty Condo for days. Just walked around it without a second glance. Watching Hubby go from excited Poppa, as in look what I bought for you, to rejected suitor was actually downright hilarious. He tried to hide it but he was very disappointed with her attitude of being underwhelmed. So, like all good wives who wish to bolster their darling Hubby's ego, I taught the underwhelmed cat what her Kitty Condo was for.

I started by playing catch with her, by rolling the ball to her and letting her chase it. Then after a few tosses, I tossed it inside the bottom floor of the condo. She just reached in and took it out. Still underwhelmed. Finally I hit upon the idea of tossing it into the second floor of the condo and watching it disappear and reappearing right in front of the opening where she could catch the ball. Eureka it worked. She went inside and up to the second floor and out the second floor door.

I will admit that the interest in the Kitty Condo did last longer than the usual 5 minutes, but not much. She played with it for the better part of a month. Which of course Hubby got to see, and to pat himself on the back for a job well done over it. Then it tipped over with her inside. Scared her into hiding in her usual hiding place under the bed and never to play with the Kitty Condo again. Hubby added a piece of plywood to the bottom for stabilization, I tried to use the ball to get her inside again to no avail. So, the rather expensive Kitty Condo ended it's life in the same place all the rest of her toys do. In the trash. I haven't purchased a toy for her in years. I just give her the pens, or their caps, the pencils, the bottle caps and the plastic rings off the top of the gallon milk jugs with the screw on tops. Hey, it keeps her out of the potted plants.
Good thing you don't have a dog, because cats are good at getting even with you while they get the dog in trouble: like when the cat goes up on the table and pushes your glasses on the floor for the dog to chew up.
AHHH, the joys of a chuckle. The family picture album is always good for that. I'm glad I now have the all-in-one so I can share the chuckle today with blogstream. Yes, kitties can definitely be vindictive little critters when you do something they don't like. Like bring a puppy into the environment.
Sherry
Love Ya
Loved and laughed at your post.....
Good to read such a fun post.....
With kids, you can count on them to want the contents as they get older. Come to think of it, I'll stick with the cat, makes the whole process cheaper. LOL
Sherry
I can always count on my family album for a good laugh. Come to think of it, maybe it's the cat. LOL
Sherry
A funny post that includes the antics of my favorite kitty, and allows me to poke just a little fun at Hubby. Can't beat that now, can we?
Sherry
How are you today?
I have not managed to teach Bashful the "fetch" thing. She sure did teach me though. LOL
Sherry
Thank you, I'm much better today. I sincerely hope you are too.
BTW, how were the Chicken Enchiladas?
Sherry
Thank you!
Love, PolarB ;)
Thank you!
Love, PolarB ;)
Your critter is awful purty......
Having gotten the all-in-one for my birthday allows me to show off way too much. Still, it does give one an attractive way to illustrate the post. I thank you for the compliment on her looks, but I do have to tell you that she isn't always as nice as she looks. I've worn more than my share of scratches when she was younger, but she has mellowed. Now, I only get cuffed when I hit a nerve during the injection, and she doesn't extend her claws as far as she used to.
Sherry
I forgot that one of the things I do when I feel stressed or afraid is get "very helpful", but on the receiving end it could feel like being controlled.
It makes me sad to think that when people needed to feel understood, I made them feel even worse. I apologize. A true friend would have listened more and talked less.
None of you NEEDED my opinion. If you had wanted it, you would have asked for it. I'm sorry.
It is not up to me to force anyone to understand abuse, or to explain how victims feel, because there are many more ways than the ones I described. I was a living example of what a victim in recovery acts like when she is afraid.
Please forgive me. I was wrong. Thank you. Taylor
For the last few days the most comfort I felt was because of you. There may be others that feel they didn't need you. I AM NOT ONE OF THEM. Had it not been for you I would have not been able to get past the fear and offer the post from yesterday that I had hoped would help heal. for the first time since Saturday I feel almost normal. I feel that I did my best and it didn't work, but that's OK, I can give myself credit for trying.
Sherry
thank you so much, it's was beautiful. thank you for taking my hand.
Sherry
this was a fun post.
Hey, what happend with all the bloggers?? Why did they leave? I keep getting "deactivated" when i hit some of my fav's....did i miss something..Especially Lucy....( Didn't Lucy go away once before and come back with a bang?) or was that someone else???
Sherry
We thought it was perfect too, until it tipped over with poor Bashful in it. So, off to the trash heap it went. All I know for sure is I don't spend any more money on cat toys. She likes to choose her own.
Sherry
It tipped over on her while she was playing inside. She came scrambling out of there like the hounds of hell were after her and ran down to the bedroom and under the bed. She wouldn't go near it after that and if she had to walk by it she'd belly down and really move. That cat can beat feet in any position, including sitting down, I have wood floors now instead of carpet.
Sherry
Out here in the woods my cats drag in all sorts of critters and for some reason they are still alive. I'm still afraid of a little mouse.
Sherry